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Trip consent and who is asked to pay

Updated 24 September 2026.

Put the destination, times, cost and consent in one place, and collect a separate answer for each child. Ask the named adult who is paying, not “the household”. The other parent should not see that balance. The school keeps its own collector and the money.

Consent and the letter are the same job

A letter that says “see ParentPay” and a form in a different app produces the phone call. Parents need the itinerary and the yes/no on the same screen, with the option to withdraw their own answer later.

Money follows the adult

Two parents can split a residential. Each charge sits on that adult’s list. Instalments, a bursary adjustment and a payment taken in the office are office actions on that charge. Pupil Gate does not hold the funds. Card payments, if you turn them on, use the school’s own Stripe account.

Who is chased

Chase the consent that is missing and the balance that is open. Do not re-send the whole trip letter to parents who have already signed and paid. A blocked contact is not in either chase list.

Checklist

  • Destination, times, cost and consent together
  • One answer per child, withdrawable by that parent
  • Charge raised against the adult who should pay
  • The other household cannot see the balance
  • School remains the merchant
  • Chase only missing consents and open balances

Common questions

Do we have to take card payments inside the app?+

No. A link to ParentPay, a payment link or a bank transfer is enough. The balance can still show in the parent’s list.

Can one parent consent and the other pay?+

Yes, when both are allowed to act for that child. The consent answer and the charge are separate records.

More on this: Payments, Who gets the information, Parent app. The full list is on the guides page.

Give parents one place to look.

Open the demo as a parent, then as the office, and see the same letter from both ends. It is a fictional trust with the real product behind it.

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Forms still open3
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